How to Pick the Right Birthday Gift for Your New Girlfriend

Are you searching for the best birthday gift for a new girlfriend?

You'll find lots of options, but it's tough to know which one is the best choice.

In the early stages, you're still figuring out the relationship. You want to impress her, but you don't want to look too eager.

Use these tips to figure out what to give your new girlfriend for her birthday.

Consider What You Know

In a new relationship, you might not know a lot about your girlfriend. But you should know a few things about her.

Think about the conversations you've had that might give you clues about the things she enjoys. Consider where she's from and what gifts might relate to that location.

If you spend time at her home, look around to see what types of things she already has.

If you know her friends or family, they might have some tips or ideas.

Choose Something Meaningful

Your relationship might be new, but the shared experiences and memories you already have can help with a gift idea.

If your first date was at a local coffee shop, give her ground coffee from the shop. If you have a favorite movie you watched together, give her the DVD.

These types of gifts show her you're paying attention and care.

Give an Experience to Share

When you're in the early stages of your relationship, you're likely enjoying lots of time together.

Give a gift that helps continue those dates you enjoy with an experience gift. Examples include concert tickets, a couple's massage, or a bottle of wine to share on your next date.

Always keep her interests in mind when choosing the experience gift. If she's not into running, registering her for a half marathon likely won't be a hit.

Another consideration is how serious your relationship is. Statistics show that if you reach 3 months of dating, you're likely to stay together long-term for at least 4 years. But every relationship is different, so consider how serious yours is.

Planning a weekend getaway might seem romantic, but if she's not ready for a commitment, that might seem like too much.

Likewise, if you get her tickets to a concert that's 9 months away, there's no guarantee you'll still be together at that point.

Balance the Cost

You don't want to come across as a cheapskate with a cheap gift.

Cheap isn't so much about the price tag as it is about the quality and the meaning. You can find something that doesn't cost much but has significant meaning to your girlfriend, such as a little keepsake that reminds you of your first date.

Skip anything that's poorly made or looks cheap and flimsy, no matter what the price.

You can also go too far the other way, especially in a new relationship. Something over the top and very expensive can seem like you're trying too hard. 

Don't stress about the exact price. Choose something that fits your budget without going to extremes. Check out these birthday gift ideas as a starting point.

Choose an Ideal Birthday Gift for a New Girlfriend

Don't stress too much over finding the perfect birthday gift for a new girlfriend. With a little thought, you can find something that makes her smile.

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